Transcript · Episode 43
How Danielle Butler Built Ritzy Quilting Company From Scratch
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0:00 All right, well, everybody, welcome to Quilting Business Success.
0:29 I'm Bobby, working tech support, and Andrew here.
0:35 I was going to come up with something witty, like the place where the show hosts are so
0:41 professional that you'd never know it.
0:44 Yeah, it doesn't quite work, does it?
0:47 Yeah, it's not doing much for me, so.
0:50 All right, sorry.
0:51 Okay, well, we have a very special guest today.
0:54 Danielle, we'll get to you in just a second.
0:58 I want to tell the people that are watching live that you do have the opportunity to submit
1:07 questions or comments.
1:08 If you look at the bottom of your screen, you'll see a place where you can click and
1:12 type in a question or comment, and we'll be glad to go over those and ask Danielle those
1:19 on the air as we go.
1:21 And on the off chance that this is the first episode that you've listened to, I think this
1:27 is actually episode 43, and you can go back and view all of the prior ones.
1:35 The very first episodes were audio only, and then we very quickly started putting them
1:42 on YouTube as well.
1:44 There's actually a page on Gamble.com, and I believe it's Gamble.com slash Quilting-Business-Success.
1:53 But anyway, you can go there, or you can sign up on a podcast app on your phone, and like
2:01 I said, the first few episodes, I think, were audio only.
2:05 But every single person's story has been really interesting, and I think everybody's going
2:11 to really enjoy Danielle's story.
2:13 I've heard little snippets of it, and I can't wait to get into the whole thing.
2:18 So nobody's here to listen to me talk.
2:20 So Danielle, where's home for you?
2:24 Where do you live?
2:26 Home is Crystal Springs, Mississippi.
2:29 It's a little bitty town.
2:30 We got about 5,000 people.
2:32 Occasionally, there's stray goats that turn up at the little local rainies.
2:37 You see it on the walking down.
2:39 Like the goats, seriously, there's a goat that gets around.
2:42 You'll see it everywhere.
2:44 But we're just south of the capital city.
2:47 It's a great town.
2:48 It was at one time the tomato capital of the world.
2:50 So I don't know if it still is or not, but Crystal Springs.
2:54 So is it pretty rural then?
2:56 It's a long ways away from a big city?
3:00 Not at all.
3:01 It's 30 minutes from Jackson.
3:04 We're 30 minutes outside of Jackson.
3:06 So the big city is 30 minutes in either direction.
3:12 You're going to be in a big city.
3:13 I know.
3:14 Okay.
3:15 It's good to have a fellow Mississippian on the show.
3:17 You may be the first.
3:18 So that's good.
3:20 I'm from the Hattiesburg area down there.
3:22 The Pine Belt area.
3:25 Yes, yes, yes.
3:27 So Danielle, how long have you been long arming?
3:32 Since 2019.
3:34 I started on a used machine that was not a gamble.
3:39 It was, I bought it off a marketplace and the motor was shot.
3:44 You could work for about five, 10 minutes at a time and you wouldn't think anything
3:48 was wrong with it.
3:49 The 30 to 45 minutes into it, it would smoke.
3:53 So it just never worked.
3:55 But despite all of that, what I figured out was I really, really like long arming.
3:59 It was like the world's biggest pencil and it was a whole lot of fun.
4:03 And I just enjoyed it so much.
4:05 And so despite all of that, I was like, yeah, I'm going to get a new one of these.
4:10 I'm not going to go with a used one.
4:12 And I looked around and I was like, yeah, I want a gamble.
4:15 So I got a gamble.
4:17 And the gamble I bought new in 2020, the day after Christmas, it was delivered.
4:25 Wow.
4:26 Did you look, did you look, you mentioned that you'd pick the gamble.
4:31 What was the main thing that you saw about it that that made you decide to get that one?
4:38 You didn't really see gambles up for sale.
4:41 Like you would see other brands, you would see a whole lot of baby locks up for sale.
4:48 You would see, you really wouldn't see gambles up for sale.
4:52 I mean, and if they did go up for sale, you could tell that they had been really
4:57 well taken care of because their price point was so close to new that it was just like,
5:02 okay, this is a good brand.
5:05 I'm going to go with this.
5:07 And what type of gamble machine did you start with?
5:12 Um, this is my first one.
5:13 It's a gamble vision 2.0.
5:15 It's a 22 inch head on a 12 foot frame.
5:20 And I thought about the 14 foot frame because my used one had a 14 foot frame.
5:26 And then I decided not to get a 14 again, because there really wasn't that much of a
5:30 demand for something that big.
5:32 It just took up more space, but there really wasn't a whole lot more that 14 would do that
5:37 the 12 wouldn't.
5:38 So, if you're looking at it, the 12 works for pretty much anything you'll ever see.
5:46 I agree with that sentiment.
5:48 It's very rare to find somebody who's had to turn away a quilt because it wouldn't fit
5:54 on their 12 foot frame.
5:57 Men, I can speak for men, I think, sometimes when we will make our first quilt, we always
6:04 think bigger is better.
6:05 And so we'll do a king size quilt and then put an extra border around it.
6:10 But those are not the people that you're doing quilts for all the time.
6:13 But we're, that's just kind of how God wired us.
6:16 What can I say?
6:21 So, did you get this machine specifically to do a long arm business or did you buy it
6:28 for yourself first and then?
6:30 It's kind of interesting how this came about.
6:32 I had originally gotten it because I had toyed around with possibly quilting for the
6:39 public.
6:41 But like a lot of things in my life, I sort of fell into it.
6:45 In 2020, the whole world sort of got put in timeout.
6:50 I mean, we all know that.
6:52 At that point, I was a wastewater operator and I had been for a couple of years.
6:58 And I had been for a very, very long time.
7:02 And I'm a United States Navy veteran.
7:04 So that should let you know that I don't really brighten off from a lot of challenges
7:11 easily or at all.
7:13 But in 2020, where I was at had sent out an email and they accidentally included me in
7:21 this email.
7:22 My name first and last was about three letters different from somebody else in the company.
7:28 And he was much higher up in the company than I was.
7:32 And so when that email came out and I got it, the email was is that by December of 2021,
7:38 everyone would have to take a vaccination that was out.
7:43 In 1996, I had taken an anthrax vaccine and developed Bell's palsy from it and it cleared
7:50 up.
7:50 But the United States Navy at that point put me on a no vaccine list.
7:55 I was told very, very clearly at 21 years of age that I was not allowed to take any
8:00 vaccines, any kind ever, ever again, because once you've had one reaction, they say the
8:05 potential for death is very, very high.
8:08 So my mind going into 2020, regardless of the politics or anything about it, I already
8:15 knew what my medical choices would be.
8:17 And so the company had put out that to continue working there, everyone would have to have
8:22 this.
8:23 So that was, and I went to the company and I said, Hey, look, I can't do this.
8:27 And they said, we'll talk to your doctor and see if your doctor will admit you to the
8:31 ICU before you take it.
8:35 And I went, so you want me.
8:38 That's interesting medical advice from a non-medical person, but okay.
8:44 And I went, I'm sorry.
8:47 I went, no, no, no, we're not doing that.
8:49 And when this email came, I promptly started looking around and I'm like, okay, I already
8:55 know I like long-arming, maybe this is something that can get me through.
9:00 And so I went to, at that point, Gamma was still selling through local dealers.
9:05 And so I went over a couple of towns over and I bought the Gamma and they delivered
9:11 it the day after Christmas.
9:13 And I'm very, very partial to that long arm.
9:15 I will probably never get rid of it ever because it saved my life.
9:20 Because I want to follow your timeline.
9:22 So you got the email letting you know that you had a problem at work.
9:31 How many months before you got your machine?
9:33 Was that eight months?
9:35 No, I went two days after that email came and bought the Gamma.
9:42 Oh, okay.
9:42 It was right away.
9:43 Okay.
9:44 All right.
9:44 I was like, we're going to have to find another, we're going to have to pivot and find another
9:48 thing, find some way to do this.
9:50 Because everything coming at you so quickly was, well, everyone's going to have to take
9:55 this and you won't be able to get a job and you won't be able to do this and you won't
9:58 be able to travel.
9:59 And I'm like, okay, so I'm going to be forever outcast in society.
10:03 And that was what I was thinking was going to happen at this point in time.
10:08 So I went, all right, we'll just make quilts.
10:11 You know, even if I'm selling quilts that are completely made or I'm just quilting for
10:15 myself, whatever it is, we'll figure it out.
10:19 And so I bought the Gamma and now we're into 2021 and they finally make it public to the
10:26 rest of the company.
10:27 What I had known about since December, accidentally.
10:32 Only they sped up the timeline because in their initial email, they had said that it
10:36 was going to be December of 2021 to have this happen.
10:39 On August of 2021, August the 24th specifically, they called everybody in and said, if you
10:47 do not, this was on a Tuesday, if you do not have this first dose by Friday, you no longer
10:54 have a job.
10:56 And so I tried talking to them and that was when they suggested I get my doctor to admit
11:00 me to the ICU in case I had problems to, you know, take the first dose.
11:06 And I went, no, that's not going to work for me.
11:08 So I don't know where you are in terms of higher powers or God or whatever that I do
11:16 believe in God.
11:17 And so I was like, okay, God, here we go.
11:21 So I handed them everything.
11:22 I handed them back their company car.
11:24 I handed them their uniforms, their keys, everything.
11:26 And I went, all right.
11:28 And on the way home, I get a phone call.
11:31 I had kept a little Facebook page where my quilts that I'd been doing for myself on the
11:36 Gamma were posted.
11:38 And I get a phone call and a lady named Ms. Charlotte was on the other phone.
11:43 And I love Ms. Charlotte to this day.
11:45 Like Ms. Charlotte gave me hope that day.
11:48 I don't know if she knows she was the answer to a prayer.
11:51 But Ms. Charlotte calls and she said, I saw your Facebook page and I would like to know
11:55 if you do quilting for the public.
11:57 I never quilted for anybody but myself.
11:59 And I said, yes, I do.
12:01 She said, can I see you this afternoon?
12:03 And I said, yes, ma'am, you can.
12:05 And she comes over and she comes into my studio because my Gamma was in a studio all
12:10 by itself.
12:11 She drops off the most beautiful quilt I've ever seen in my whole life.
12:14 It was like far superior to anything I've ever pieced myself.
12:18 And I was like, oh my gosh, she wants me to quilt this.
12:20 So I quilted it and I put the little flowers and stuff she wanted on it.
12:24 And she was so excited when she got it back.
12:26 And she's like, told some friends.
12:29 And then some other people showed up.
12:30 And this was just slowly.
12:33 And then those people told people.
12:34 And then these people told people.
12:36 And then somebody was like, you know, I really hate piecing bats.
12:43 And I was like, we can do something about that.
12:45 So flash forward to late 2022, I get an LLC.
12:51 And I have my studio.
12:52 And then I have a she shed, basically, that was really nice.
12:57 And I turned it into a store.
12:59 And the studio was already separate from the house.
13:02 And so all this is in the backyard.
13:04 Let me ask you, during the early time of that, Danielle,
13:07 when that first started, you did that first quilt.
13:11 For Miss Charlotte.
13:12 For Miss Charlotte.
13:14 Did you, at that time, begin doing any type of reaching out advertising or?
13:21 Nope.
13:23 Just the Facebook.
13:24 Facebook and word of mouth really traveled.
13:27 I was already in some quilt, you know, like I joined some quilt guilds.
13:30 But I started going, you know, when they would let me.
13:33 I wonder, can I can I ask this too?
13:38 You had only done your own quilts.
13:40 And then Charlotte brings you a beautiful quilt.
13:48 Like people listen to us partly because we keep it real.
13:52 Were you terrified?
13:54 I was terrified.
13:57 Tell us about that.
13:58 I mean, what were you thinking if you were putting it on the frame?
14:02 I can't remember.
14:03 My hands were shaking when I loaded her quilt in the frame.
14:08 Like, it must have been like every six, eight inches.
14:12 I was like crawling under the frame to check the back
14:15 because I was so terrified it was going to mess her quilt up.
14:19 Like choosing thread had never become as hard as that was.
14:24 It was like, OK, we have to have the right shade of blue.
14:28 And I was like, oh, OK.
14:29 You know, where you get the phone out and you did a little grayscale.
14:32 And you're like, OK, that looks good.
14:34 And then you send a picture and you get a yes, no.
14:37 And it was like, but it was scary.
14:39 It was so scary to quilt on somebody else's quilt.
14:45 But the dealers I had bought it for, she long armed for the public.
14:50 And she gave me some really good advice when I first got the machine.
14:56 She said, if you want to get good at this, this is what you got.
15:00 She said, especially if you ever think you might want to quilt for the public.
15:04 She said, I want you to go home and pull out your scrap bin.
15:08 Forget about your rotary and your ruler.
15:10 She said, just sew stuff together and don't measure anything.
15:15 And when you get a rough quilt, cut it into a square like a panel
15:19 and then start bordering it out.
15:21 She said, don't measure anything.
15:22 Just sew it on there.
15:24 Stretch it to fit if you have to.
15:26 You know, make that bias real ruffled.
15:29 Her advice was to make it more ruffled than a head of lettuce.
15:32 And she said, if you could make that flat, then you could do anything.
15:37 And I found that to be pretty good advice was if you could do that.
15:43 And so then you start looking at how to get that to work.
15:46 And what I found was some people say soup cans,
15:50 but I got real nervous about anything food related around a quilt,
15:53 especially my gammon because vixen is kind of special to me.
15:57 So what I found was the spools of omni-thread or glide thread
16:01 that still have the paper, the plastic around them.
16:05 If you lay those on the quilt, you can kind of make the quilt
16:11 feel like somebody's holding you up with water bottles.
16:14 But I like to use the soda pop ones because they're stronger.
16:18 And then you put water in when they're empty, you know.
16:21 And that way, if it hits the floor,
16:24 you don't have the problem of like a metal soup can.
16:27 I think soup cans were version one.
16:30 I use thread. I use the thread spools that are still in their plastic.
16:34 Yep, yep.
16:37 And it takes the, it makes it enough to get the fluffy out.
16:44 So you found your customers through Facebook and through,
16:50 did Miss Charlotte, did she help find you more customers?
16:55 Oh, she did. Miss Charlotte told friends, showed friends.
16:59 Those friends showed friends.
17:00 So I think I'm on like five or six people out from Miss Charlotte at this point that
17:06 if you did a little string diagram, they would all point back to Miss Charlotte.
17:10 Did you tell her that she was an answer to prayer?
17:14 I have several times. And I don't think she believes me.
17:17 I don't think she really truly understands how much I love her for showing up that day because
17:26 that particular day I was so scared.
17:29 Yeah.
17:32 I was so scared. I thought we were going to lose the house.
17:34 I thought, I thought so many things like it.
17:39 It's very, very scary to face the possibility that no one will ever hire you again,
17:46 just because you don't want to risk dying.
17:53 So when, when this first, you say you,
17:56 did you say you purchased the machine like right after?
18:00 Right after that first email.
18:03 And how were you able to afford that machine? Or how did you,
18:07 how did you purchase that machine?
18:11 I had saved up and I took out a loan.
18:14 I took out a small loan from the bank.
18:19 I had saved up and then there was a trade in on the dead machine.
18:22 So that was actually really cool that they gave me a trade in on that.
18:26 And just to get it off the market, I guess, I don't know what they did with it.
18:30 Don't care. May it rest in peace.
18:33 But it was amazing. It was so amazing.
18:37 Like it was, I took out a four year loan and I paid it off in a year.
18:41 So I actually paid off Vixen in just shy of a year.
18:44 You were able to do that with the revenue you earned from the machine itself?
18:49 Yes. I sat down and calculated it up. It took 85 quilts to pay off Vixen.
18:58 The only ones that started in snowball.
19:00 Hate to be in debt.
19:03 I hate being in debt. I hate it. Hate it.
19:05 Yep. Yep.
19:07 Yep. Yep.
19:09 So do you do custom quilting as well as edge to edge or?
19:15 I do a lot of edge to edge, not so much custom.
19:18 I do what I call modified custom, which is
19:22 sometimes people will come in with like panel quilts or stuff where there's a lot of
19:27 decorative in the center.
19:29 And so what I mean by that is there's like edge to edge and then I stop, break the pattern,
19:35 finish out the row.
19:36 And then there's this area where there's like some free hand around stuff that they don't want.
19:42 You may not want it over the monogramming.
19:44 You may not want it over certain applique.
19:47 So we'll break the panel, pick up the panel and then just custom around it.
19:55 I don't really know what that's called, but I call it modified panel.
20:00 And how, how much time do you spend these days quilting and is this your primary job that you do?
20:09 This is my primary job. In fact, since 2020, I now own a fabric store and I do custom, I do
20:21 long arm services. So, Vixen, she's the heartbeat and she made everything else around me possible.
20:29 That gamble saved my life in so, so many ways.
20:36 Is that the name of your, your machine, Vixen?
20:38 I call her Vixen. I figure anything that costs that much, that needs this much, you know,
20:43 love and care, like she gets a little oil here and there. Anything that gets her nails done that
20:48 often, needle, that's her nails. She's got to have a name. So, she's beautiful. So, that's Vixen.
20:57 I don't really hear you pining for your old job back.
21:02 No, not at all. I was good at it. I was very good at it, but it never made me happy. I didn't
21:11 wake up going, oh my gosh, I just want to go there today. I wake up for my long arm and I think, oh,
21:18 I get to do this today or I get to do that today. I'm surrounded by fabrics. I'm in a happy place
21:25 all the time with the machine. It's like a giant pencil.
21:29 That is the best thing. If you can think it, you can draw it.
21:34 Yeah, I bet you didn't have the smile on your face when you were going to work at 6am for the-
21:40 4.30.
21:42 4.30.
21:45 So, do you, about how many quilts would you say, you said you paid off your machine with 85 quilts.
21:55 And you got the loan paid off in a year, which is really, really, I mean, for anybody who wonders,
22:05 she was working hard. Danielle was working hard and she was not sitting around on the quilts. She
22:13 was getting busy and getting them done because that's, you worked hard to do that. How many
22:18 quilts would you say now it would be a yearly kind of number for you?
22:26 I've done seven in the last eight days.
22:31 So, a couple hundred a year.
22:34 It would, it would be up there.
22:36 Yep. Let me ask you one thing. When you started out, you were terrified when you did the first
22:45 quilt for Miss Charlotte.
22:49 After you got a few quilts in, did you, did you start to get a rhythm with it? Did you start to
22:57 feel more comfortable with it?
22:59 You do. You do feel more comfortable, but I don't think you ever lose that, that terrified feeling.
23:05 You got somebody else's stuff you're dealing with.
23:08 Right, because once you, once you do this, you, you realize people tell you about their quilt.
23:16 They'll say, oh, this was my brother's clothes. He just passed away and I'm making this for my
23:24 nieces and my nephews. Or you get, I'm making this quilt for a friend of mine who just, her daughter
23:38 lost the baby.
23:42 And this is the receiving blankets and the pieces and her maternity clothes. And
23:50 a quilt is never, ever, ever just a quilt. You know, some people may be putting them in a show
23:57 and then some people make them and they want them dragged through the park, the dirt, the sand,
24:02 wherever it's, it's a blanket fort waiting to happen. But at the end of the day, that quilt
24:07 has a life and it's going to have memories and it's made this comfort and it's so comforting
24:14 to people when they get that quilt. And what makes it so special is you see a smile come across their
24:21 face when they get it. And I still get people saying, oh, you made my quilt beautiful. No,
24:27 I didn't. I made your quilt beautiful. Your quilt was already beautiful. You just let me
24:34 put the little tacks in it that hold it together. But the real work they did, that, that's not my
24:40 work. That's, that's theirs. I just get to do little sparkly stuff at the end.
24:46 There was, there was a story of, I don't know if it was a sculptor or something, but the idea
24:55 it being that they start with a rock or whatever they're sculpting and, you know, they, they chip
25:02 away all the parts that don't belong and then what's unveiled at the end is a majestic sculpture,
25:08 you know. But, you know, it's interesting that you, that the way you, the way they look at it
25:16 is they just brought you a flat top and you brought it to life. That's how your customer sees it.
25:23 But you see it as, oh, you brought me this beautiful quilt top and all I did was finish
25:29 what you had already done, you know. Right. But it, it really is interesting how your perspective,
25:35 it really affects how, how you see that. And we do have a, Lisa has submitted a question
25:43 asking, do you use any business software? What do you mean business software?
25:51 Well, there, there are some software out there for tracking quilts in particular,
25:56 like what color thread the customer wants and what pattern you're going to use. But you may
26:02 use software like that or you might use something like QuickBooks or something. I don't know what
26:06 the answer is, but I think that's. I use Excel. You use Excel. I use Excel. I use Excel spreadsheets.
26:12 I did a lot of spreadsheets in my former career. So Excel and I became really good friends. So
26:18 I use a lot of Excel. And then when the intake comes in, I have invoices that are, have carbon
26:24 copy, like, you know, they'll tear apart and that just one copy will always stay with me. And one
26:30 copy will always go with the client. So I can actually look back through and see what I've
26:36 done for someone else without having to pull up Excel. Do you consider yourself one of those
26:42 type A personalities who keeps every, all the T's crossed and I's dotted and organized,
26:49 or are you more of a laid back? I'm very OCD. Okay. I spent a lot of years between the military
26:57 and dealing with the EPA and the MDEQ for water results. So you don't work in a lab for a lot of
27:05 years without picking up a hand, wash my hands like still a hundred times a day, but I don't
27:12 think that habit will ever go away, but you just, you just pick it up. And so you're always just
27:17 keeping notes. It's there. How many hours in a regular week, and I know every week is going to
27:26 be different, but how many hours do you spend quilting to get, because you said you did seven
27:33 quilts in eight days or something like that. That's, is that full time pretty much or? Pretty
27:39 much. And is that seven quilts in eight days? Is that pretty much typical? That's, that's typical.
27:51 How long was it, was it maybe a year or how long was it before you realized that you had a
28:00 going concern that could replace your job? I mean, you didn't realize it on the first day
28:06 with Ms. Charlotte. No, it hit when I was looking back through the Excel, getting ready for taxes
28:15 that would come up in 2020, January of 2023. So around October, I started looking at it
28:22 and I kept track from 2021 to current. And I went, there's a clear trajectory. And I'd had a lot of
28:30 people say, Hey, you know, what you should have is some wide backs here. We need a lot of wide
28:35 backs. I hate putting the seam in. And I went, no. So I sat down in October of 2022 and I filled
28:44 out the paperwork and I LLC, and the name of my business is Ritzy Quilting Company.
28:51 And no, I don't think I'm that fancy. Ritzy was my grandmother's given name.
28:59 I named my business for my grandmother. She was the one who taught me to quilt.
29:04 And she would have been, she would have thought that longarm was the coolest thing
29:09 that she had ever laid two eyes on because she quilted the old fashioned way with hands
29:15 on the frame over the bed or in the living room that dropped down from the ceiling. And when you
29:19 got ready to put it up, it went back up to the ceiling with some ropes tied in all four corners.
29:24 And that was how I had initially learned to quilt. And so I didn't know what else to name the
29:32 company. And then it occurred to me that if she had never taught me to quilt, there wouldn't have
29:38 been a longarm sitting in the studio. There wouldn't have been something to fall back on.
29:43 So my grandmother thinking she was just passing down this family thing without even knowing it
29:50 when I was a child and teenager, she was teaching me something that in the whole world felt like
29:56 it was falling apart for me. Those stitches she had taught me would come back in a different form
30:02 and they would put me back together one little piece at a time. So I named the thing that I was
30:10 creating because I wouldn't have known to create it without her. I named it for her. So we're Ritzy
30:17 Quilting Company. And I LLC'd. And so then I was like, OK, what next? I was like, OK, I'm just going to
30:26 carry some wide back fabrics for people. Anybody, whether they use me or not, come in, get some fabric.
30:32 Hey, cool. And then this funny thing happened. I was like, I think I'm turning into a fabric store.
30:41 And so last year in November, we went to the bank and I said, hey, I found this great little building.
30:51 I see. Will the bank give me a loan? So the bank went, hey, OK, cool. We'll give you this loan.
30:58 And so I bought the building.
31:02 And now it's a fabric store and Vixen is still the heartbeat.
31:07 She just moved from a studio to a commercial space, but she's still the heartbeat back there.
31:14 You've had this amazing path from the starting out with a lot of uncertainty,
31:21 hardship, stress. And then it's like the Lord has had his hand in this situation
31:28 through the whole path. And as with any path that we take, like you have been through,
31:37 there has to be some, it's not all just roses and everything easy.
31:43 Can you tell us what are some of the hardest
31:49 parts of building this business or growing this business that you have encountered?
31:57 The hardest things that I've had to learn is it doesn't come when you want it to.
32:02 It comes when it has to. Before I bought the building, I sat down and I prayed just like
32:10 I had done the day I quit, you know, handed over and said, I'm not doing this.
32:14 And I said, all right, God, I am not the brightest child you have in your garden.
32:21 And you've got to give me this sign that lets even those of us that are prone to possibly
32:27 talking to walls or licking a window know that this is what you want me to do. And this is before
32:33 I got the loan. This is when I was like, OK, well, the bank even give me a loan.
32:37 I said, God, if this is not what you want me to do, give me a sign. If it is what I'm supposed
32:41 to do, give me a sign. And so by this point, I had a website where I was listing the widebacks
32:46 and I paid. We paid for like so to build the website straight out of the gate. I was like,
32:52 OK, if we're going to do this, might as well do it right from the beginning.
32:56 And so I'm sitting at home with my little long arm doing some quilt and my phone rings.
33:02 And there is a lady on the other end and she goes, I see that you have your only online,
33:10 she said, but you're not far from where we're going to be passing through on our way to a
33:14 quilt retreat in Texas. But we'll get there a little after you close. Do you mind if we shop?
33:18 And I said, well, you kind of need to understand that the store is not really a store at this
33:24 point. It is an insulated, heated and cool building in my backyard in a residential area.
33:32 And if you don't mind going through my backyard into this building, I said, it's very nice. It's
33:38 cool. It's heated. It's pretty. We've got antique hardwood floors on the ground,
33:42 you know, on the floor in there. I said, but if you don't mind that, come on and shop.
33:47 And so her and her four friends stop and I'm just like, OK, I have weird people in my yard,
33:52 but the neighbors are going to think we're doing drug deals or something. I don't know.
33:57 They kind of like watched all these quilts and baskets and bags leave for years. And
34:02 they've actually what one of them has actually walked over and said,
34:05 what are you doing? You have more women stopping by. How many grandmothers do you have?
34:12 And I went, we don't have grandmothers. And she's like, OK. And they left it at home. But
34:20 these four ladies that night decided decided to spend close to fifteen hundred dollars in
34:28 widebacks purchase. So I stood there and cut fabric for a couple of hours. And when they
34:35 left, I went, OK, God, I got what you were trying to tell me. That was the sign.
34:41 We'll go through with it. So I went through with it and.
34:47 As terrifying as Miss Charlotte's quilt was, I was shaking the day I saw that paperwork for the
34:53 building. It's shaking just. I took my grandmother's picture with me. And I was like, OK, we're doing
35:01 this. And then grand opening day. Oh, my gosh, it was amazing. It was like.
35:10 It was surreal. It was so surreal. It was like the day they delivered Dixon.
35:16 I just saw hope, you know, I knew that it wasn't going to happen overnight.
35:21 And we're still in that one beginning of the year. We haven't even hit a year in the building yet.
35:28 And so it's still scary. Every day is scary. But I pray a lot and it happens and I don't
35:35 know how it happens and I don't question how it happens. It just does. I think the biggest
35:42 takeaway is faith. I have faith that God is not going to drop me. I have faith that the building
35:52 that is named for my grandmother. I like to think my grandmother is my guardian angel,
35:58 and she's up there going, give her a little bit of help.
36:06 It's still terrifying, but I do know this. You don't build something like this for yourself.
36:14 It's like planting a fruit tree. You're not planting that fruit tree for you because you're
36:18 not going to see the apples that come off of it or the peaches. You're not going to live long
36:22 enough to see the full orchard effect. What I'm building right now is for my daughter and whatever
36:30 children she may have at some point. And that next generation, like my grandmother, didn't
36:35 get to see this. I will not see where this goes. And I know that. But this is my fruit tree for
36:43 whatever my family tree comes next. And I'm okay with that. I'm so totally okay with that.
36:52 My faith says that this is not my fruit. I'm just a little piece. My grandmother started it.
37:03 I put a little in and I'm pretty sure my daughter and whatever children she has,
37:08 she's going to be what sees the full magnification of this. And that keeps me going is that my
37:15 daughter will never have to work as hard or be as scared as I have. And that whatever children she has,
37:23 I will be able to have done my part to make their life better. And that's what this is to me,
37:32 is an investment for the future.
37:39 I believe that there's a long ways for your business and your ministry to the people around
37:48 you. There's a long ways for that to go. And like you said, you don't know how it's going to develop.
37:55 Because if you had to look forward four years ago, three years ago, you would never have
38:04 imagined where you are today. You don't know where you're going to be four years from now.
38:10 And I use that word ministry because when people come in with their quilt tops,
38:16 that sometimes they are negative on their own piecing ability. And they kind of fell out of
38:26 love with it before they even finished it. You know what I'm talking about. They come in and
38:32 they're like, well, I hope you can make something decent out of this. And then you give it back to
38:38 them as a completely transformed piece. I'm sure that you do a lot to raise the spirits of the
38:48 people who come to you for your service. So long arm quilting is a people business. But every
38:58 business is a people business. If you're a hair stylist, it's a people business. If you're running
39:05 a restaurant, it's not all about the food. So anyway, I can see why everybody wants to bring
39:12 you their quilts. What, no, it's not what, it's who. Who has been your strongest supporters and
39:24 your cheerleaders? And we already know about Miss Charlotte. We'll never forget her. Who else has
39:30 been there for you? My daughter picks on me. She says, Mom, it was such a harmless hobby.
39:36 I'm like, what do you mean? She goes, well, you used to just sew and putter at the dining room
39:42 table. She said, I don't think anybody realized this was going to come out of that.
39:49 But no, she's not wrong. They used to pick on me. So are we going to have pins in the dinner
39:55 tonight? You know, because I'd have to move everything off the dining room table. And so
39:59 it's part of literally.
40:00 really the dining room table. And then here it is. But my
40:04 family, my family is my rock. And my daughter, like I said,
40:09 she does pick on me a lot. And I think that is so cool. I did
40:14 teach her to sew. And she's put it down because she's in nursing
40:17 school right now. So but I have a feeling it'll be like my
40:21 quilting. It'll come back when she realizes it. You teach
40:25 somebody when they're little, and they're gonna come back to
40:28 you. And anybody that may wonder if their grandchildren
40:34 are going to love that quilt, or even remember, I promise you,
40:40 they may not tell you. I didn't get to tell my grandmother.
40:47 Like,
40:51 I think she knows. Those quilts are my treasure. Like if my
40:56 house caught on fire, Vixen would have to like fend for
40:59 herself. Because I'm going in to get my quilts and my cat. But
41:06 those quilts are so special. And ones made by your
41:10 grandmother are just irreplaceable. And to me, that's
41:14 a fun part of what I do. I cannot tell you how many quilts
41:18 have been left undone that people have brought to me and
41:22 said, my grandmother didn't get this finished. And I'll finish
41:25 it for them. So just a hint, if you have some stuff that you
41:31 aren't wanting people to take as your family heirloom, you
41:35 should probably finish it up and donate it or put it on the free
41:38 table at your guild now. Because your grandkids might find
41:42 another long armor and think that that is the quilt that you
41:45 want them to be remembered by. And if it's not your favorite
41:50 one, and that's why it was in the bag, hide it now. Hide it
41:54 now.
41:57 I'm curious, I don't know if you actually told us, how many
42:02 what kind of how many hours a day do you spend quilting and
42:06 doing this, this stuff?
42:08 Five to six.
42:10 Okay, you put out you put out enough volume that it's close to
42:17 the
42:19 close to the statler. Yeah, yeah, you're doing I started
42:22 thinking about that. So yeah, that's the numbers we hear from
42:25 the people have the computerized systems. The thing though, is
42:28 that the pantograph style quilting is actually pretty
42:32 quick. It is more one custom where you can spend, you know, I
42:40 mean, there are people that will spend six months on a quilt to
42:43 any customer. So
42:46 that's why you get the zipper leaders.
42:48 Yeah, so you can zip it off. That's right.
42:52 So
42:54 what kind of impact has the the money from quilting? Although
43:00 that question has more to do with people who do it as like
43:02 additional income, this is your job. But I'll just ask you the
43:08 question we ask everybody do the best you can with it. What kind
43:11 of impact has the quilting money and the control of your personal
43:15 schedule made in your life?
43:17 Well, it's made a huge difference. My stress level is
43:21 not as high as it was when I was testing water samples or other
43:26 things.
43:29 Quilting let me feel like I was in control of my day. It's let
43:34 me feel like I'm in control of my future. And especially after
43:38 2020 I don't know if I would ever want to depend on the
43:46 on somebody that can just walk up one day. No matter how good
43:51 you are and you haven't done anything wrong and say that. Oh,
43:55 if you don't do X, Y or Z, we know that this was never part of
44:00 your job description. But this thing from your personal life
44:04 or because if you can try and say that somebody is supposed to
44:08 take XYZ medicine. What's to stop them from walking up and
44:14 saying, hey, you're a diabetic and we don't want somebody with
44:21 insulin. If they can start basing all of this off of one
44:25 thing, it's not a far leap to think that they could at some
44:29 point base it off of other things. And that's a really
44:33 scary, scary, scary thought for me is that at some point
44:37 somebody can just walk up and effectively not only take the
44:41 food off the table, but take the whole table too. And
44:45 quilting has given back a lot of control. I've never seen an
44:49 ugly quilt. I promise you, I've never seen an ugly quilt.
44:55 Every day I get to see the most beautiful hearted people come
45:00 in here and say, oh, this is a donation quilt for the Petal
45:04 Fire Department or the Brookhaven Fire Department or
45:10 the police officers are going to put these in their car and
45:12 they're going to give them to kids that they find in trauma
45:14 situations. Or, oh, we're doing these quilts and they're going
45:18 to the VA nursing home. And that to me is so cool that these
45:22 quilts are going to go take on a life and comfort somebody or
45:26 give meaning and let somebody know at the end of the day that
45:29 they're not forgotten and that they are loved. And nobody will
45:33 know who put the stitches there. They'll never know who made the
45:35 quilt. All they'll know is somebody loved them enough to
45:39 be with. Sounds like this career has not only added more
45:46 self-actualization, being able to be your own boss, but I can
45:53 just tell by listening to everything that you're saying,
45:55 it has added a lot more meaning to your career than you would
46:02 have ever had in your old life. Yes. It's amazing.
46:10 We're getting ready to, we're getting closer to wrapping up. I
46:13 wanted to ask one thing. Is there anything you can think of
46:18 when you started actually the business, what's it been, five
46:24 years ago now, four or five years? Is there anything that
46:29 you wish that somebody would have told you at that time or
46:34 something that would have been valuable for you to know at that
46:38 time that you don't know now that you wish you would have
46:42 then? Yes. Even if you never intend to do much more than
46:51 quilt for other people, if you're going to quilt for
46:54 people, make friends with your local quilt shop because they're
46:59 going to be a valuable resource. They can get you thread.
47:02 They can do all of these things, but the thing I wish that
47:05 somebody had told me from the start was LLC pretty quickly
47:12 because you can get batting a little bit cheaper. Having a
47:16 wholesale license, you can get thread a little bit cheaper.
47:19 Even if you never plan to sell the first piece of fabric, just
47:24 being able to get your thread wholesale will mean a whole lot
47:28 more in your, it just means a whole lot more profit in your
47:37 pocket because you're looking at wholesale thread and that's
47:41 like $8, $9 a spool versus $14 to $17 for the same one. You can
47:50 get a little bit more thread quicker. One of the things that
47:56 if people are interested and want to know, one of the
48:01 products that we have here at GAML, everything that we do is
48:06 orientated towards making sure that quilters have the tools
48:11 that they need to be successful. This free program is part of
48:16 that. We want people to know these things so that they can be
48:20 successful in what they've chosen to do. One of the
48:23 products that we have is a coaching program. It's a 12
48:27 month long coaching program called Accelerate. It's for
48:32 people who are starting a quilting business. It has all
48:37 these different sections in it, including how to set up your
48:42 LLC. There's got to be a hundred different topics in
48:48 there, but a lot of times people who've never done it
48:53 before, they don't know where to look for good practical
48:57 information. If you Google it, you can find loads of
49:01 information. Sometimes it's just like too much. It's like too
49:09 much to sift through. We have that Accelerate program that
49:14 people can, you don't even have to own a GAML to sign up for
49:17 it. It coaches people through the first 12 months of their
49:21 business. You have actual meetings with your coach every
49:25 month to solve your problems and help. I know you mentioned
49:31 some people along the way that it really helped you. Those
49:37 supportive relationships are so valuable. The people that you
49:43 know you can go talk to. It sounds like you probably had
49:47 some, like it was a while before. How did you decide?
49:52 What made you decide that you needed to set up the LLC?
50:00 People kept bringing me backings. I kept hearing, oh, I
50:05 don't like this seam down the center of my back. They would
50:09 get creative to make it look like an artistic part of it,
50:12 but the fact remains is you have all these seams for piecing
50:15 the back. People were like, oh, well, I wish there were more
50:21 choices because a lot of times quilt shops or even Joann's or
50:25 whatever is local to you, their wide back choices are like,
50:29 there's a white, there's a blue, there's a red, there's a
50:33 black. You might have a yellow that's kind of orangish and
50:38 that's it. There's no pattern. It's just pick one or else get
50:44 your 45 fabrics and put it together. I was like, there's
50:50 got to be more fabric out there. I've seen these at quilt
50:53 shows. I know it exists. I was like, yeah, I can do that.
50:57 When I got the LLC, I got it with the aim of getting my
51:02 thread a little bit cheaper and my batting a little bit
51:05 cheaper because I realized I was going through a lot of
51:07 batting. It's like, okay, we'll just bring in a few. People
51:12 really responded to the wide back fabrics and that's kind of
51:17 the big thing. I probably have like 100, close to 100 wide
51:21 back choices in the store and there's more coming in all the
51:24 time. The back of your quilt shouldn't be boring. It can be
51:29 just as pretty as the front of your quilt. Life's too short to
51:34 be boring. Use all the colors.
51:43 There's something that I like about wide backs in the fabric
51:47 business and that's because I have a little, I used to have
51:53 fabric for sale and wide backs and in a life long, long ago
51:59 in a store long, long ago and far, far away.
52:04 There's a lot of times that you'll have bolts of 45 inch
52:11 fabric that just sit there and nobody wants it. It happens all
52:16 the time, but the wide backs, I never had a problem with
52:22 because they were designed to be wide appeal. They're not a
52:30 specialty that has canoes and bears on it. If you find the
52:36 right person, they'll want three yards of it, but if you don't
52:39 find the right person, nobody will buy it. The wide backs are
52:43 designed to be of general appeal. I do feel like it's a
52:50 investment to have wide back fabrics, editorializing there.
52:56 We are down to our last question, Bobby, but you'll have
53:03 to ask her about her Facebook and website and where people
53:07 can find her, but let me ask the last question first and then
53:10 he'll get to the last, last one. What advice would you give to
53:16 somebody who's heard your story from 2020 and heard of all the
53:25 things that you've gone through to get to where you are today?
53:28 If some person like Danielle is sitting out there and she's
53:33 thinking to herself, I want to do it, but I'm scared. What
53:38 would you tell her? What's your advice to her?
53:43 Well, kind of like riding a bicycle, getting married, having a baby,
53:49 starting a business. There is no perfect time. You just sort of at
53:55 some point have to take it on faith and make that leap, and
54:00 you're going to bounce a couple of times while you learn to fly,
54:03 but it's going to be so amazing when you do. To give you
54:10 context, I never at any point in my career made over $100,000 a
54:17 year. As a wastewater operator in the state of Mississippi, you're
54:20 doing really, really well if you make $52,000 to $55,000 a year.
54:26 My husband works for the state and he doesn't make a whole lot
54:32 either, so at no point have I ever cleared $100,000 a year
54:37 prior to long-arming and the quilt store. I also didn't come from
54:44 money. My dad was a cop and he passed when I was a teenager.
54:47 My mom is in her 80s and she was a secretary, so I didn't come
54:51 from money. I certainly didn't have that kind of money, but it's
54:57 possible. With a whole lot of faith, it is absolutely possible.
55:02 I was 22 when my daughter was born, so when I say that there is no
55:11 right time to have a baby and there's no right time to do all of
55:14 these things, there really isn't. It's just a matter of I used to
55:20 keep a sign on my desk that said, you have two choices. You can
55:28 live your fear or you can live your dreams. Choose wisely, but
55:32 you don't get both. If you're living your fear, that's putting it
55:36 off. If you're living your dream, you find a way to do it and make
55:40 it happen.
55:43 Wow. Well, Danielle, we want to thank you so much. Your story has
55:49 been inspirational and entertaining. Inspirational, not only the
55:55 physical journey that you've taken, but the parallel internal
56:00 journey and transformation that you've been able to share with us
56:06 so powerfully. We really appreciate that. Our time's come to an end,
56:13 but before we go, do you have any place where people can get in
56:19 touch with you?
56:21 I do. I have a website. I have a website. You can shop with me.
56:27 There's a contact button on there as well, so you can send me an email
56:31 through it. It is www.ritzyquilting.com, R-I-T-Z-Y, quilting.com, like
56:40 putting on the Ritz, but Ritzy. When you get there, you'll see there's
56:47 a greeting on the front page. It says, hi, darling. That was my
56:49 grandmother's personal greeting for me. This is named for her. Y'all
56:55 are all darling now. Welcome to the Ritzy family. You can read about
57:01 it. You can see it. You want to shop, I do fast shipping. We just
57:06 became a Janome dealer, so I'm really excited about that, but I
57:11 wouldn't give anything for my Ritzy back there. Gamble, y'all
57:16 changed my life. You really did, and you saved my life. That machine
57:21 back there is amazing. There's no robotics on it. I don't want
57:27 robotics, but I wouldn't give anything in the world for my Gamble.
57:35 Thank you so much. I have nothing to add. Thank you so much. Your story's
57:42 amazing. I believe you have encouraged a lot of people, both the ones
57:48 that are here with us today, and there will be hundreds or thousands
57:53 more who listen to it over the years. Each one of them, I certainly
57:59 hope, will take to heart your words because I think they come from
58:03 your heart. Thank you so much, everyone, for joining us. We will be
58:08 back next week with another episode. Thank you so much, Danielle.
58:13 Have a nice night. Good night.
